August 11, 2026 · By Dan Zamfir, RP
When people picture a first responder, they picture someone arriving. A truck, a cruiser, a stretcher. They rarely picture the person who took the call, kept a stranger breathing over the phone, coordinated three agencies at once, and then took the next call forty seconds later. Dispatchers and communicators are part of the response, but because the public never sees them, their stress is often treated as something less than the real thing.
It is not less than. In my work with first responders across Niagara, communicators describe a version of occupational stress that is distinct, and in some ways harder to put down.
A few features of the job come up again and again in the room:
You do not have to be at the scene to be affected by it. Exposure through the ear counts.
Communicator stress often shows up sideways. The people I see are rarely coming in because of one enormous call. They come in because of an accumulation they cannot quite point to. Common signs include a startle response to phone ringtones or radio tones off shift, a growing flatness or numbness toward callers that feels unlike who you used to be, replaying specific calls at night, dreading the start of a shift block, irritability at home that is out of proportion to what is happening there, and drinking a little more than you used to just to get the volume down.
Sleep is usually one of the first things to go, particularly on rotating schedules. That deserves its own attention, and I wrote about it in more detail in shift work and sleep for first responders.
There is also a particular kind of guilt in this work: the sense that you should have gotten the address faster, kept the caller calmer, given clearer instructions. That guilt is not really about competence. It is closer to what I have described as moral injury, the wound that comes from caring deeply in a situation where you had no good options.
Some of this is individual, and some of it has to be structural. Both matter.
If you manage a communications centre, the single most useful thing you can do is make it unremarkable to say a call was hard. Culture is set by what leadership treats as normal. When a supervisor openly takes five minutes after a bad call, everyone else learns they are allowed to. When supports are only offered after a catastrophe, people learn that ordinary accumulation does not count.
Practical steps: include communicators in every critical incident process, not just road crews. Make sure your Employee and Family Assistance Program provider actually understands emergency services. And check that your peer team has clinical supervision, so that the people absorbing everyone else's calls have somewhere to put them too.
You do not need a diagnosis, a single defining incident, or permission from anyone to talk to someone. If the job has been following you home, that is enough of a reason. Our first responder therapy work is built for people in exactly this position, and individual therapy gives you a place to set it down and look at it honestly.
You have spent your career being the calm voice for everyone else. It is reasonable to want one for yourself.
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This article is general information, not a substitute for professional care.